06.26.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 5:40 pm by Administrator
The following are guidelines based on tradition and should help
you determine who should pay for what. Of course, this may be
modified to suit your own particular needs or circumstances.
Wedding & Engagement Rings
Bride’s Engagement & Wedding Rings: THE GROOM
Groom’s Wedding Ring: THE BRIDE
Wedding Gifts
Gift for the Bride: THE GROOM
Gift for the Groom: THE BRIDE
Gifts for the Bride’s Attendants: THE BRIDE
Gifts for the Groom’s Attendants: THE GROOM
Invitations and Announcements
Invitations: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Announcements: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Postage: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Wedding Stationery: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Attire and Accessories
Bride’s Gown & Accessories: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Groom’s Tuxedo & Accessories: THE GROOM
Attire for the Groom’s Attendants: THE GROOM’S ATTENDANTS
Attire for the Bride’s Attendants: THE BRIDE’S ATTENDANTS
Attire for the Groom’s Family: THE GROOM’S FAMILY
Attire for the Bride’s Family: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Flowers and Decorations
Flowers & Decor for the Ceremony and Reception: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Flowers for the Bride’s Attendants: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Boutonnieres for the Groom, Fathers and Grandfathers: THE GROOM
Boutonnieres for the Groom’s Attendants: THE GROOM
Corsages for the Mothers and Grandmothers: THE GROOM
Bride’s Bouquet & Flowers: THE GROOM
Ceremony and Reception
Ceremony Location Fee: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Officiant’s Fee: THE GROOM
Marriage License Fee: THE GROOM
Reception Location Fee: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Food & Beverages: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Photographer and/or Videographer: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Entertainment for the Ceremony and Reception: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Limousine/Transportation Rentals: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Any Other Applicable Ceremony/Reception Costs: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Other Expenses
Engagement Photos: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Engagement Party: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Wedding Cake: THE BRIDE’S FAMILY
Rehearsal Dinner: THE GROOM’S FAMILY
Honeymoon: THE GROOM
Bridal Shower and Bachelor/ette Parties
Bridal Shower: THE BRIDE’S ATTENDANTS
Bachelor Party: THE GROOM’S ATTENDANTS
Bachelorette Party: THE BRIDE’S ATTENDANTS
Out-of-town Attendants and Guests
Accommodations for the Groom’s Attendants: THE GROOM
Accommodations for the Bride’s Attendants: THE BRIDE
GUESTS are responsible for their own transportation/travel AND accommodations
ATTENDANTS are responsible for their own transportation/travel expenses
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Posted in Uncategorized at 5:35 pm by Administrator
The following are guidelines to tipping those who helped
make your special day an extraordinary affair…
Caterer/Banquet Manager
15% to 20% (usually included in contract, however, if the caterer or manager has done an exceptional job, an additional $1.00 – $2.00 per guest is suggested.)
Waitstaff
15% to 20% (usually included in contract, however, if it is not included, the tip should be given to the maitre d’ or head waiter along with an additional 1% – 2%.)
Bartenders
15% to 20% (if the bartender is not accepting tips from guests, an additional 10% is suggested, but not required.)
Limousine Drivers
15% to 20%
DJ’s
15% – 20% (gratuity is not usually required, however, if you feel he/she has done an exceptional job or has provided extra or special services, a tip is a wonderful gesture.)
Bands
$25.00 per band member (gratuity is not usually required, however, if you feel he/she has done an exceptional job or has provided extra or special services, a tip is a wonderful gesture.)
Photographer and Videographers
15% (gratuity is not usually required, however, if you feel he/she has done an exceptional job or has provided extra or special services, a tip is a wonderful gesture.)
Florists
15% (gratuity is not usually required, however, if you feel he/she has done an exceptional job or has provided extra or special services, a tip is a wonderful gesture.)
Bakers
15% (gratuity is not usually required, however, if you feel he/she has done an exceptional job or has provided extra or special services, a tip is a wonderful gesture.)
Restroom and Coat Check Personnel
$0.50 – $1.00 per guest (if not accepting gratuity from guests, the host would be responsible for tipping personnel at the end of the event.)
Parking Attendants
$1.00 – $2.00 per car (if not accepting gratuity from guests, the host would be responsible for tipping parking attendants at the end of the event.)
Officiants
$75.00 – $100 .00 (Note: It is appropriate for a clergy member (priest, rabbi, minister, etc.) to accept gratuities or a donation along with their regular fee (if any), however, civil officiants (judges, clerks, etc.) receive a flat fee and are usually not allowed to accept gratuities.)
Ceremony Staff
$35.00 – $75.00 is suggested for organists/musicians. $5.00 – $25.00 is suggested for altar boys, sextons, etc. (gratuity is not usually required, however, if fees for the above are not included in the ceremony site fees, the suggestions above are appropriate.)
Wedding Planners / Coordinators
10% – 20% (gratuity is not usually required, although, for something better than usual to exceptional a 10-20% tip is not unheard of.)
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06.19.08
Posted in eventements at 12:32 am by Administrator
Party Pros: 13 Questions to Ask Party Planners
No doubt you need help coordinating your party. Keep these questions in mind while talking with your party planner.
Strongly consider handing the planning baton to an event coordinator or professional party planner if a) You have no time to plan the party; b) You have no desire to plan the party; c) your guest list has 100+ names and keeps growing; or d) you simply prefer — and can afford — professional help. They’ll do the legwork, hire vendors, negotiate contracts, and may even cut you some money-saving deals. Here are some key questions to ask.
(1) Will the coordinator commit to your budget and not push you in the direction of things you simply can’t afford?
At eventements, we pride ourselves in helping you maintain your budget. Your budget is a crucial part of your planning process and we will have an entire meeting just on budget. We would never persuade you to do something you cannot afford. If it is something that you love and cannot live without and still cannot afford it, we will do everything we can to come up with an alternate that you will love just as much!
(2) Will the coordinator devise a master plan mapping out all the little details, from announcement to zebra-striped decor? (This will clue you in to organizational prowess and a willingness to keep you in the loop on every matter imaginable.)
Of course we will! It’s YOUR day, we are basically your hired help. We have excellent organizational skills and will provide you with weekly updates, and a well-mapped out master plan that is yours to keep forever.
(3) Can the coordinator name the best and most original locations in your area (that would be suitable to your party size, style, and budget)?
All of the staff at eventements has been in the Pittsburgh for nearly 30 years. We have each planned countless events and have worked at or with numerous other venues and vendors throughout the area. We will recommend and visit as many as it takes for you to be happy.
(4) Is the coordinator familiar with the best florists, photographers, caterers, bands, and DJs in your price range? Can he/she explain their strong points to you briefly? (Ask yourself: Does the coordinator seem both knowledgeable and passionate?)
This is all we do at eventements. This isn’t just a hobby or a fleeting company. We have each worked within the event industry for the majority of our careers. We have numerous contacts and respect for other vendors. We also know who to stay away from!
(5) Can the coordinator score you some discounts with any vendors? (Coordinators bring volume to favored vendors; often vendors will reciprocate by slashing prices or throwing in extras.)
Yes, coordinator in general are able to get better prices than the average client. We are masters of negotiating. Our reciprocal list is growing at an alarming rate.
(6) Will the coordinator read over the vendor contracts for you? What are some common traps to look out for?
That is a big part of what we do for you. We are familiar with contracts in a variety of forms, and will guarantee that you will get exactly what is agreed upon. I do not want to think that any vendors are dishonest, but some common mistakes happen after the meeting when they might “forget” what the agreed upon price is, and the contract comes back with a higher price. This has not happened to us as wedding planners yet, but it happened a few times in the corporate event sector.
(7) Can the coordinator create a timeline that tells everyone involved in the planning process — vendors, family members, etc. — what to do and when to do it? How will she/he make sure that everyone sticks to the schedule?
This is exactly what we do. Everyone will receive an agenda and we ensure that everyone sticks to it. We’ve had a client refer to us as a human clock before.
(8) Will the coordinator handle the invitations, from wording and ordering to the addressing and mailing?
Of course we will. Some brides like to do that on their own, and that is okay too. All of this will be gone over throughout the many meetings and emails we will exchange.
(9) Can the coordinator counsel you on etiquette matters and alert you to hot trends on the party horizon?
Very much so. Since this is our full time jobs, we receive numerous event publications, and are constantly reading up on trends and tips. We also know a lot about etiquette. Some of it is out of date, and some of it we’ll make sure you follow the roads, either way though, we’ll let you know your options.
(10) Will the coordinator organize delivery, arrival, and setup times with photographer, florist, musicians, caterer/banquet manager, et al?
Yes
(11) For the day of the event, will the coordinator be willing to oversee the entire event by supervising vendors, troubleshooting emergencies, and soothing nerves? Can she/he share any anecdotes that required performing above and beyond the call of duty?
Yes
(12) Will the coordinator be willing to step in as your advocate, conveying your visions and desires to vendors when you don’t feel up to the task?
Most Certainly. It often still comes as a big surprise to us when vendors seem to ignore what you’ve just told them and try to suggest whatever they feel like doing. We’re masters at spelling it out and making our point clear.
Party Pointer: Remember that the coordinator should have plenty of questions for you too, in an effort to determine your wishes, needs, level of maintenance, budget, scope of imagination, and more. You’re both trying to assess each other and how well you’ll work together. The coordinator will probably initiate discussions — take this time to consider manner, personality, confidence, warmth, whatever you’re looking for. Whomever you enlist, do not hire a coordinator who doesn’t want to listen, is bossy, tries to convince you of what’s best for you, critiques your ideas, has no references, or won’t sign a written agreement.
Thank you for taking the time to read this Question & Answer session. We hope you’ve gotten to know us a little better and we hope to hear from you in the near future! If you have any other questions please feel free to ask, we’ll be happy to answer. visit our website www.eventements.com or email brandihugar@eventements.com Let’s start Planning together!
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06.18.08
Posted in Calligraphy at 10:27 pm by Administrator
A How-To on Assembling your Wedding Invitations
RULE: Wedding invitations are assembled by size.
1. Slide the reply card faceup beneath the flap of the reply envelope.
2. Set the reply card and envelope facedown on the reception card.
3. Set the reception card faceup on top of the invitaiton. A piece of tissue paper over the invitation prevents smudging.
4. Place the invitation and enclosures in the ungummed inside envelope with the lettering facing the back of the envelope. For folded invites, the fold runs along the bottom of the envelope.
5. Place the inside envelope in the outer mailing envelope so that the unsealed flap of the inner envelope is neatly tucked away.
Seem complicated? eventements will be happy to assemble your invitations for you! Please visit our website for more information, www.eventements.com
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Posted in Calligraphy at 10:22 pm by Administrator
You’ll be asked to give or email us a typed address list (handwritten lists, even if legible, may introduce errors). Be sure to check your list twice and make sure that someone else familiar with the names takes a careful look as well. To make it easy to follow, leaving little room for error, lay out your list in an orderly, three-line format:
Mr. and Mrs. John Davidson
123 Main Street
Merrytown, MA 12345
Whether you’re hiring us to calligraphy the names of your invited guests or you’re trying your own hand at the task, listed below is the proper procedure. Here are the ins and outs of addressing invitations, right at your fingertips.
The outer envelope:
This is where you write the recipients’ full names, official titles, first names, and the rest. It’s where tradition is upheld, decorum celebrated; that means no cutting corners with abbreviations like Dr., NY, or St. (Mrs., Mr., Ms., and Jr. are the only acceptable shorthands). Some examples:
Single Recipient
If the single guy or girl is bringing a date who is someone you know, get the individual’s address and send a separate invitation because “& Guest” on an outer envelope can be impersonal. Roommates who aren’t honeys should each receive their own invite.
Ms. Abigail Ansch
44 Acorn Drive
Houston, Texas 11111
Married Couple, Traditional
Mr. and Mrs. Harold Paris
92 Pacific Avenue
New York, New York 12121
Married Couple, Modern
Harold and Emma Paris
92 Pacific Avenue
New York, New York 12121
Married Couple, Different Last Names or Unmarried Couple, Living Together
Always list the names in alphabetical order (and on their own lines if unmarried).
Ms. Connie Chideya & Doctor Darren Duncan
18 Blueberry Road
Boston, Massachusetts 30303
Invited With Kids
Names of children under 18 years old need not appear on the outer envelope, but over-18ers who live at home should either appear on their parents’ envelope or, preferably, be sent their own invitation.
Mr. and Mrs. Ebert Estonia
& Farrah Estonia
195 Oak Boulevard
Chicago, Illinois 51515
The Inner Envelope
Formal invitations are always slipped into an unsealed inner envelope to be placed inside the outer envelope. They are addressed in a more informal fashion — typically only title abbreviations and last name — and include the names of all invitees at the address, including children. For example:
Mr. and Mrs. Estonia & Farrah, Gilbert, and Harriet
– Hagar Scher from the Knot
FINISHING TOUCHES
Remember, your invitations are the first tangible example your guests will have of your wedding, and they can go a long way toward setting the tone.
A final consideration: In addition to addressing the envelopes, we can stuff, seal, and stamp the invitations, which is a simple way to save some time.
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Posted in Calligraphy at 9:08 pm by Administrator
Looking for a calligrapher to address your wedding invitations? Below you can find eventements Answers to the 10 questions suggested by The Knot to ask before you sign on the dotted line.
1. Q. How long have you done calligraphy and how were you trained?
A. Artists by nature, we started Calligraphy by Brandi in 2004. Calligraphy has been a successful side job since then, when we decided to roll it into eventements to offer additional services. Jessica was trained in high school, and both sisters were trained by their father, who also did Calligraphy as a side job.
2. Q. How much will it cost?
A. Our prices are clearly spelled out on the Calligraphy Pricelist, no matter what font style you choose. Please visit www.eventements.com/Calligraphy.html to view our price list.
3. Q. Can you match the font on my invitation to the envelopes?
A. Of course we can! We would be glad to send you a sample.
4. Q. What is the turnaround time?
A. We recommend two weeks.
5. Q. Are you willing to stamp, seal, and stuff envelopes?
A. Yes, most definitely, we would be happy to. The price for collating is also listing on the Price List.
6. Q. Will you need extra envelopes?
A. We would like for you to order 25% extra. The truth is, mistakes can happen. We sometimes focus so hard on letter formation that we might misspell something.
7. Q. Will you redo mistakes free of charge?
A. We most certainly will if it is our mistake. However, if by chance it is your mistake, as in, you gave us the wrong name, then you we will have to charge you the difference.
8. Q. What are some letter and design styles?
A. You can find all of the choices on our website and through our previous font blog. Since we have two full time calligraphers and another in training, we are able to provide a wide array of fonts and style choices. It’s completely up to you, and what you like.
9. Q. Do you have references?
A. In addition to our testimonials listed on the website, we would be willing to give you a couple of our previous client’s contact information.
10. Q. Do I sign a contract?
A. We will send you a contract. Everything will be spelled out in writing, and there are no hidden costs or fees.
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Posted in Green Tips at 8:43 pm by Administrator
“Save a tree” isn’t just a cute slogan — between global warming and habitat destruction, it’s imperative. Minimizing the amount of virgin paper used in your wedding stationery can have a huge impact. While there unfortunately aren’t extensive options for eco-friendly printing — between the inks, toners, and solvents, a lot of chemicals are involved — there are fabulous (yet responsible) choices when it comes to paper.
Opt for Recycled Paper
You can’t completely dismiss the wedding invitation. So instead, use paper that has a high-recycled content or is made from an alternative fiber, such as hemp or bamboo. “There are beautiful recycled papers,” Seo says. And buying recycled does make a difference. According to Ariel Dekovic, coauthor of 365 Ways to Save the Earth, “Every ton of recycled paper saves 17 trees, 7,000 gallons of water, the energy equivalent of 380 gallons of oil, and keeps almost 60 pounds of pollutants out of the atmosphere.” Go to WomanCraft.net: These 100 percent recycled invitations are handmade by women working to overcome homelessness and other hardships. Or try JamPaper.com for a wedding-worthy array of recycled papers.
Consolidate Inserts
Typically, there’s a lot of information to convey to your guests. Instead of enclosing multiple cards in your invite, combine the essential info into one card. Or, even better, print up a website card that directs guests to your personal, paper-free domain.
Minimize the Mailings
Use online invites for the surrounding events: the bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, and the postwedding brunch. If you need to update your guests about the wedding happenings, toss the paper newsletter for an email version.
Skip the Extras
Instead of placing a menu at every setting, have one or two for the table. If you’re having wedding programs, eliminate unnecessary pages (like that monogrammed layer of vellum). Or print up one per couple — you definitely don’t need extra programs.
Seat Guests with (Paperless) Style
Two escort card ideas we love: Paint or stamp guests’ names on stones, or tie a ribbon to the stem of a flower (using ribbon left over from the programs, of course) with the guest’s name and table number on it. Or, forgo individual escort cards for a poster that lists table information. Take it up a notch with white-glove service: have guests ask the waiters (armed with printouts of the table assignments) for the info.
Splurge on Calligraphy
Have as many items hand-calligraphed as your budget allows. Not only is calligraphy gorgeous and elegant, it’s totally eco-friendly. Envelopes and escort cards are pretty standard, but you can calligraph menus, table names and numbers, and even the invitation itself.
Investigate Printing Alternatives
Most large printers still use traditional printing methods, but there’s no harm in asking if yours would be willing to try soy- or vegetable-based inks. Make sure to find out about custom projects that are eco-friendly (think program covers) at GreenerPrinter.com.
Another Great Article from the Knot
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06.17.08
Posted in horoscope at 8:21 pm by Administrator
Aries
Being a bride is like being the CEO of your own company, the perfect Aries role. You get to lead the pack, focus on the details you like and delegate those that you don’t, all while being surrounded by a gaggle of admirers. What could be better? As the perfect project, your wedding will be one for the record books, with everything reflecting your personality just so, and the right amount of drama, fun, glitz and glam. Even when it’s over, it’s not over — you are such a great storyteller, you’ll be reliving it for a lifetime!
Taurus
Taureans love being surrounded by beautiful things. As a bride you lean toward tradition — the white gown with the train, the large bouquet of roses, the three-tier wedding cake topped with a bride and groom. You’re not one to easily embrace change and are most at home with the trappings of the classic wedding. Taurus girls love to collect things. From preserving your flowers to keeping a satin box with hundreds of photos, you’ll want mementos of your wedding close at hand to enjoy for years to come.
Gemini
Being a bride gives you lots of opportunities to do everything you love — hanging out with your friends, partying, shopping, chatting, laughing; you’re in for the time of your life. Geminis are so in the know. Reading, watching, listening — you totally immerse yourself in all things bridal. From watching every wedding show to reading every bridal magazine, your Gemini mind just doesn’t rest. Gemini bride, all this reading, writing, chatting and organizing is time well spent — not only will you have a most unforgettable wedding, but after it’s all over, newly engaged women everywhere will be asking your advice for years to come.
Cancer
As a bride, you will have lots of opportunities to connect with your closest friends and share your innermost thoughts and feelings. You’re excited about dress shopping with your mom, having lunch at potential reception sites with your groom and poring over bridal mags with your maid of honor. Cancer brides think with their heart. You want an intimate affair that you can share with everyone near and dear to you. With a large bridal party and as many little ringbearers and flower girls as you can find, love truly rules your special day.
Leo:
Leo is the royalty of the zodiac. You absolutely must have an event that befits your royal place in the stars. Programmed to like nice things, you naturally gravitate toward the priciest, most top-of-the-line items. It’s very hard for you to even think about compromising, because your ideals and your integrity are big priorities. If you’re put in a tough spot, you might have a downright temper tantrum, although those limitations can bring out your ingenuity (How can I create this look within a budget, or this space, or this time frame?). You’re always up for a good bridal challenge.
Virgo:
No one brings a more thorough approach to planning a wedding than a Virgo. There is no role that is more suited to your natural gifts and talents than that of bride and wedding planner. Hardworking and detail-oriented, you have no desire to palm off little jobs on your parents or your bridal party so that you can feel like queen for the day. Just remember to stop organizing and analyzing for a few moments so you feel all the love your friends, family and fiancé have for you!
Libra
Born under the sign of beauty and partnership, Libra girls are the natural brides of the zodiac. While other signs enjoy their independence, going it alone is unappealing to the scales. You are keenly aware that relationships enhance who you are. Of all the signs, you most enjoy working in cooperation with others. You have a natural understanding of your fiancé’s needs and your parents’ wishes as much as your own, and you will look to them to share in the experience. From the invitations to honeymoon, it simply would be no fun without their love and approval.
Scorpio
Passionate, romantic, and deeply loving, Scorpio is the most intense sign of the zodiac. With a strong will and focused drive, you do nothing halfway. You will tackle the role of bride like you are taking on the biggest project of your life, using all the powers at your disposal to create a wedding unlike anyone has ever seen. Generous, romantic Scorpio, this is your most powerful transformation to date: tapping into all of the forces of nature to create a wedding that has special meaning for you and your beloved.
Sagittarius
You enjoy getting to know people from all walks of life; how they think and feel, what motivates them as they live their lives. Having such an expansive view of the world and an innate understanding of humankind makes you a very eclectic bride. You’re not one to get caught up in the glitz and glam of the day. You love to have fun and you want a celebration, but you’ll never lose sight of the fact that it’s one day and that your marriage is the adventure of a lifetime.
Capricorn
Capricorn, you were put on this planet to accomplish big things. You love to set goals for yourself and do whatever it takes to get them accomplished. As a bride this drive will serve you well. Once you decide how you want your big day to look, you will stop at nothing to make that vision a reality. Whether that means turning over every rock to find the exact dress you want (at the perfect price) or spending extra hours at the office to pull in more cash, you will have the wedding of your dreams.
Aquarius
Aquarians are fun-loving and forward-thinking people who pride themselves on their individuality. Always pushing the envelope through new ideas and bold moves, you are the first to embrace new concepts in weddings. From the vows to the video, every aspect of your big day will be a new twist on an old tradition. You value your community just as much as you do your independence; having like-minded people around is vital to your happiness. You take an adventurous attitude in your role as bride, looking at every day as an opportunity to discover new things, meet new people and express your creativity.
Pisces
Planning a wedding can be a wonderful and torturous experience for a Pisces. Envisioning all the possibilities is a joy, but having to constantly make firm decisions is not always easy for the Fish. With a poetic grace, you’ll create an event where everyone will feel the presence of something otherworldly. Your ceremony will reflect the deep spiritual love that Pisces live for; your reception, every little girl’s dream come true. And in the center of all this energy will be you and your fiancé, reaching into the unknown together as bride and groom and entering the most mystical journey, the one as husband and wife.
From “Never Throw Rice at a Pisces” (St. Martin’s Press) by Stacey Wolf
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Aries
The Ram is in love with love. Passionate, independent and spicy, he’s up for creating a unique wedding from start to finish. Just don’t ask him to do any of the boring busywork — and never give him orders. Instead, suggest creative ideas and work together. You should also let him have an occasional outburst — it’s his way of de-stressing.
Taurus
The Bull is a loving traditional groom. Tender, affectionate and stubborn, this guy will support your plans as long as he’s comfortable with them. His biggest need is to feel secure, so make sure you don’t drop anything in his lap or make last-minute quickie decisions — he needs time to process changes and emotions.
Gemini
The Twin groom is a fun, easygoing guy. He won’t go for the standard stuff, so add some eclectic readings, write your own vows, choose the music together. Other than that, do what you want; just chat with him about everything along the way. He might be a bit spacey the day of the wedding, so don’t give him any major tasks to remember!
Cancer
The Crab is emotionally supportive. He loves to be there, holding your hand through the ups and downs and making decisions together. The key to his heart? Always make it safe for him to share his feelings. If he’s feeling insecure, he may run and hide. He doesn’t like to take risks, so stick with tradition where possible.
Leo
The lordly Lion is a generous, outgoing and headstrong groom. He’s up for every party, loves being the center of attention and treats you like his queen all night long. With dramatic displays of affection, he just oozes romance. He can become quite offended when he feels slighted, so make sure everyone recognizes his importance as groom.
Virgo
This sign, named for the virgin harvest, loves to work for you. He feels like it’s his job to make sure you have the most perfect wedding of your dreams — and he might actually do more work than you! His big issue is that he can get overly critical and see imperfections where there are none. Get him to relax and it’ll all be wonderful!
Libra
The sign of the scales makes a gracious and elegant groom. For him, the most important aspect of the wedding is how it looks. He’ll only be happy with a classic, beautiful affair, with all the elements aesthetically pleasing. Now, getting him emotionally present might take a miracle; he’ll be too busy focusing on what everything looks like.
Scorpio
The Scorpion is a protective and private groom. The idea of having a big wedding may freak him out, especially because his job is making sure you’re feeling safe all the time. He’ll need his alone time when you’re off with your mom visiting florists. Give him his space; if he’s feeling squeezed he may sting.
Sagittarius
The Archer is an easygoing, social and outdoorsy guy. He needs the wedding to be fun and exciting, so as long as you add lots of spectacular ingredients, he’ll be up for just about anything you plan. Don’t make him wear anything too restrictive and don’t make the ceremony too long, because he gets antsy very quickly.
Capricorn
The Goat is an ambitious, hardworking groom. And how much work he’ll do for the wedding depends upon how much outside responsibility he’s got on his plate. He may just be happy having you do all the work and then having veto power in the end. Note that if he feels like it’s not going as planned, he can get controlling over every little thing.
Aquarius
The Water Bearer is a groom who loves his community. He doesn’t care about most of the details; what your guy wants is every chance to include his friends and family in this big tribal wedding. He’s difficult to handle only when he feels misunderstood — then he might just want to prove his point at all costs!
Pisces
The Fish is a sensitive, expressive and romantic groom. He will share in the planning as much as you want, doting on his bride-to-be with hugs and kisses when things get tough. He needs his thoughts and feelings to be validated in return. If he feels unheard, he’ll either go off and sulk or lash out in pain — or both.
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